Be strong and of good courage. This is what God told Joshua as he was fixing to lead the Children of Israel into the Promised Land. (Joshua 1:6, 1:7 & 1:9) The stories that we read in the Bible are there for our benefit. They are not just historical records; they are examples of how we as Christian men should be walking with the Lord.
Now why would the Lord tell us that we need to be strong and have good courage? Because He knows that there will be times when we are going to feel weak and fearful that's why. He told Joshua three times to be strong and of good courage in the same breath. This must have been some pretty important instructions for him, don't you think?
We may never lead millions of God's people into the Promised Land, but as husbands and fathers, we are leading our families. And to tell the truth, when leading my family, I'm not always the picture of strength and courage myself. There are times where I'm wondering what I'm doing, and having to fight the doubts of my own abilities. Thank God that the Holy Spirit leads, guides and directs me.
You know as men, we were never called to be perfect, (aren't you glad for that?) we were called to be lovers, leaders and providers. But we will only be lovers, leaders and providers as long as we are following the leadership of Jesus. We must be submitted to Him, in every area of our lives if we ever want to lead and be successful at it. And that means we may have to lay aside some things that we've always enjoyed to do that.
One of the ways that we can lead our families is through prayer. Now, I'm not talking about having a planned devotion at certain times. (Not that there is anything wrong with that.) I'm talking about finding those times where you can just say, "Hey family, will you pray with me for a minute? I need some wisdom in leading us where God wants us to go, and would really appreciate your prayers." Then don't pray a long wordy prayer, just pray the Word of God and make it simple. Then thank them, and go on about what you were doing. It won't be long until your wife and kids are coming to you and asking you to pray for their needs, and then you'll be leading.
We can do this, if for no other reason than the Father believes in us. After all, He didn't call our brides to lead us; He called us to lead them. And that's not because we're smarter, or better looking, it's just because that is the position that He has placed us in. So let's get out there and make a difference in our family's lives and in doing that, we'll make this world just a little better too!
Strength and honor for the Kingdom and the King...GodsFirstKnight...Dave.
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